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Address
given by Helen Budd Mason, Weston Memorial Day Grand Marshal, May 29, 1995
Thank you for this honor - something I never expected to happen to me.
During a conversation with a friend the other day she remarked that ‘Weston is Paradise’. I'd like to tell you
about the Paradise Weston was in the early 1900's, a Paradise quite different from today - the Weston of my youth
on a fairly typical farm.
Weston's population was considerably less than 1000 - and everyone knew everyone.
There were far more open spaces, only dirt roads, four 1-room schools, no electricity, no stores and many, many
more birds and flowers than now.
In the open spaces there are now houses. Back then there were only five houses on Kettle Creek Road when I was
born. Dirt roads changed with the seasons: Spring mud which was okay with horses, but often difficult when cars
arrived. In summer there was dust and in winter snow and frozen ruts (with the arrival of Fords it was rather fun
to learn to ride the ruts). Snow removal was done by a crew of farmers and hired men who got $1.00 a day, the going
price for a day's work on the farm, too. With shovels they cleared the main roads, and all too often, no sooner
did they finish than another snow storm came.
Children walked to the little 1-room schools - they never heard of buses! And the teachers had to get to school
early to start the fire in the old stoves so it would be at least warmish when the children came.
There was no electricity - only oil lamps and lanterns. No stores, and about once a week the horse was hitched
up and there was the drive to Westport or Norwalk for staples, etc.
Farm life in those early days was a busy one and ours was fairly typical. My parents were hard workers: most of
our food was raised on the farm. My father had cattle, pigs, and chickens and a large vegetable garden. We had
our own smoked hams, and bacon smoked in the little smoke house out in back. In winter these were hung in the cold
attic - they made a wonderful fragrance up there. We had home-made sausage and head cheese - I wouldn't eat that
- and I didn't know about calories then, either.
Mother canned vegetables, fruits - even chicken. We had three orchards - two apples and one just peaches and plums.
There were several cherry trees, too. Mother's rows of canned things along a cellar wall was really spectacular
- visitors were often invited to view it, and probably given a can of their choice to take home. I remember, in
another part of the cellar there was a large pile of home-grown potatoes.
In summer we had an ice box in the pantry. A neighbor and my father cut large cubes of ice to fill the neighbor's
ice house and we went up the road with a wheel barrow to get ice when needed. In winter the pantry was cold enough.
In those five houses on Kettle Creek there were no children our ages - our nearest playmate was cousin Jimmy Coley
and he was a mile away. Mother's older sister, Florence, had married James Coley - and now that house is the Weston
Historical Society. Mother's and Aunt Florence's mother was born in what is now the Wilton Historical Society -
so I feel very close to both Societies. It is interesting that Mother and Aunt Florence taught school in about
all the Wilton schools - one you all may know, the little Schoolhouse Cafe at Cannon Crossing.
Our parents were truly wonderful. After a hard day's work they were always ready to play games with us - old card
games, dominoes, or Mother would play the organ and we'd sing old songs like My Old Kentucky Home, Old Folks at
Home, and Love’s Old Sweet Songs. We never felt deprived of the play facilities available today...we had too much
to do! My parents were great readers and they saw to it we had books which were often Christmas or birthday gifts
and I remember two magazines we subscribed to - Youth's Companion and Little Folk. There was no public library,
just a bookcase of odds and ends at the schools, mostly by Horatio Alger - and I read every one of them.
The family often went for walks weekends in the woods. My father knew the names of every tree and Mother every
flower. We had tree, bird and flower books, predecessors of Roger Tory Peterson.
In Autumn we all gathered chestnuts from the long row of trees on our property - later to roast with apples in
the big fireplace. One outstanding walk was at night with a lantern. My Father had seen a Luna moth and thought
we would enjoy such a trip. We walked deep into the woods and there it was, a thrilling moment!
Sunday rides with a team of horses were fun and one special one was driving from the very start of Easton Reservoir
- when it was but a trickle - to the very end. I remember I lost a special hair ribbon on that trip.
At home we had lots of chores - some seasonal, such as keeping the two wood boxes filled for our two stoves, one
a Franklin that never went out all winter, the other in the kitchen, and my father had to start that each morning
before breakfast.
Other chores included getting the eggs, picking berries for Mother's preserves and in the Autumn, grapes for jam
and jellies, filling lamps and keeping the chimney bright, and learning to use the washing machine and the wringer.
The flowers I miss most were those on Kettle Creek and Norfield Road. Bloodroot, a big patch grew by Kettle Creek's
brook - just a few left. I haven't seen Meadowsweet, Steeple Bush or Pink Lady's Slipper for years. At Norfield
brook there was a large patch of lovely, fragile Anemones. There were Closed Gentians and many others. I wonder
if today's children still make burdock baskets?
Wonderful bird songs I've not heard for 25 years: the Bobolinks that used to line Kettle Greek's telephone lines
and repeat their names; Whippoorwills at dusk also repeating their names, and the Partridge's ‘Bobwhite’. After
supper I used to like to sit at the edge of the meadow south of our house and watch the Night Hawk make his huge
circles, then suddenly, with an odd sound, dive for insects or maybe a mouse. And now we don't even have the delightful
chorus of Peepers in the Spring!
One job that I liked one year was husking corn after it had been cut and stacked in the big cornfield on Kettle
Creek and among the bright pumpkins. I'd sit on an upturned bushel basket and pull apart the husks with a contraption
of bone and leather (now at the Weston Historical Society). I'd remove the husk and soon fill a basket of bright
yellow corn. Not a soul would go by on that dirt road, but once in a blue moon an airplane would go over and it
was a thrill. More often I'd surprise a nest of mice which escaped to another corn stack. This job was a perfect
setting for an 11-12 year old dreamer.
This is only part of my story - I have so many, many happy memories of my childhood. I wish every child could spend
at least a year on a real farm. My brother and I had a truly wonderful start in life in that farm family - Weston's
early 1900 Paradise.
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